yea exactly
My parents are highly incompatible and they cant disagree with each other without yelling ensuing. Neither of them knows how to compromise or concede a point, they both believe they have to be in the utmost right and if they dont receive agreement they start yelling to make their point
The only reason they got together and why i was born was peer pressure to get married and have kids early by conservative society
divorce is often percieved as a bad thing to be allowed, especially by children effected by it (iirc)
but like. the entire point of divorce is that, ideally you Donāt use it, but we donāt live in an ideal world so hereās an option that is better than staying in a loveless/abusive/whatever marriage
yea
its funny how like
christians will point to the like, 50% divorce rate in america
and then use it as a justification for either āthis is why we should END DIVORCEā or āthis is why we should up our culture of pressuring people to stay married and to get married fastā (even though this is often what makes the divorce necessary!) or both
That sounds like average eastern european relationship
Find a person in their 20s/30s who doesnt have some family issues it is a rarity
We are so fucked
Elderly emotional intelligence issue skill issue
i thought i was the only thing holding them together, and then it looked like it was gonna for sure end, now I dont think its ever gonna happen, they seem content enough and are planning retirement together etcā¦ i think they just realized so much of their identity and etc. is tied up in the other
did better than one would expect having known eachother for only 6mo before getting engaged
could it be any more obvious that you just want to abuse your wife without her being able to leave
Yeah
im also 90% sure they have an open relationship so the hypothetical ālol bangs my motherā situation wouldnt really do much
I am going to scare my niece into believing into the boogeyman the very next time she doesnāt do her homework
My mom had 3 partners, all 3 were alcoholics, one of them tried to hang himself because he was so drunk and got himself in debt so her response was beating him up and kicking him out of the house because he was being a negative presence constantly
Average lithuanian family luckily she never got married
My parents got married after 10 months. Not even engaged, married
They make it appear as if they never ever had marriage issues and were always happy but Iām p confident theyāre lying about it, probably even to themselves
Though itās probably true that they have Less now
Lmao
To the curve
average mormon family my god
thatās fairly common in heavily Christian societies
mine got married after 6 months
Yep
Pretty much
I always feel like if I really want a sweetheart Iād have to wait at least a year and a half