Hi everyone! Over the past few months weâve noticed an increase in the frequency and severity of ATE (appeals to emotions) in games. We have some concerns about this, so weâre modifying our rules to address this.
Why is this a problem?
While not every form of emotional expression in games is inherently problematic, the use of extreme or excessive ATE can cause numerous problems. A few of the ones weâve noticed:
- Many players find it very unenjoyable to play in games that have significant amounts of ATE.
- ATE can often become toxic, and even when it doesnât, game threads with large amounts of ATE can lead to increased toxicity.
- Excessive ATE can create game integrity issues. A sentiment weâve seen repeatedly, in various forms, is â[Player] is town because they ATEâd so much, a wolf would never do that unless they were a terrible person.â When thereâs a discrepancy between whatâs considered acceptable for wolves and for villagers, thatâs a problem.
- The possibility of ATE can warp the gamestate. If players are refraining from pushing specific players because they donât want those players to blow up at them emotionally, thatâs a problem.
- If some players are ATEing, it can create incentives for other players to ATE as well, which leads to a vicious cycle where everyone feels like they have to ATE if they donât want to be miseliminated.
Rules changes
Effective immediately, we are adding the following rule to the Forum Game rules.
- Refrain from excessive use of appeals to emotion (ATE).
There are three main things we mean by this:
- Refrain from statements that directly say or imply that something in the game is having a negative impact on someoneâs out of game relationships or well-being. (Credit to Mafia451/Nanook)
- This includes posts that imply the game is negatively affecting your performance at school or work, mental health, etc.
- Posts that imply that your out-of-game well-being is being harmed by the game force other players to decide between pursuing their win condition and preserving your out-of-game well-being.
- If your mental health or life circumstances mean that mafia games consistently harm your well-being, it may be a good idea to refrain from signing up for games.
- Do not try to make other players feel guilty about their gameplay.
- Criticizing other playersâ play is still allowed, provided that you are not toxic.
- However, trying to guilt-trip other players (e.g. to get them to stop pushing you) is not allowed.
- Do not argue or imply that you should be townread for ATEing.
- If some form of ATE is so serious that you would be unwilling to fake it as scum, you shouldnât be doing it as town.
- In some cases, this can create a âtrust tell,â which is considered a form of cheating.
Examples
The following are examples of posts that are ALLOWED:
Hey everyone, I know weâre all a little dejected about being in LyLo without killing a single wolf, but think how great itâll feel if we can pull off a reverse sweep! Donât give up!
I think that, given that weâre a day before LyLo and I have hard defended both flipped wolves, it is strategically optimal to execute me today so that wolves canât push to misexecute me in LyLo. I am willing to self-vote if necessary to make that happen.
So far this game, youâve deathtunnelled katze, Marl, and me for posting the joycat emoji. Itâs a little frustrating that even after katze and Marl flipped town, you continued to insist that âjoycat means lockscum.â I think you are a villager, but you should reconsider how you go about solving the game.
Iâm feeling a little stressed, so Iâm going to take a break from the game for the next few hours. Iâll be back this evening.
Sorry that I havenât been as active lately, after the player Iâd been tunnelling all game flipped town I got a little dejected and I havenât had as much motivation for solving the game.
Look, Iâm just saying, katze has made 30 posts all game and half of them have been joycats. If you donât vote her, youâre going to feel pretty silly in postgame. There isnât even a real reason to suspect me compared to her.
The following posts are NOT allowed:
yeah well thanks to your allâs shitty-ass pushes on me Iâve barely even been able to focus on my job. hope youâre happy, maybe think next time before you shade me.
your push on me literally made me cry irl
the fun part of playing mafia for me is vibing with my friends in the towncore, when yâall push me for no reason itâs really hard for me to have fun :/ I play this game for fun, not to be randomly accused for no reason. I just wish you would think before ruining the game for someone.
WHY IS EVERYONE JUST BLINDLY SHEEPING KATZEâS CASE ON ME, NO ONE IS LISTENING TO ANYTHING IâM SAYING YOUâRE JUST ALL SPAMMING âARETE SUSâ AND YOU CAN FUCK OFF WITH THAT TOXIC BULLSHIT. THIS IS THE WORST TOWN IâVE PLAYED WITH IN MY ENTIRE TIME PLAYING FM. I HATE ALL OF YOU.
itâs pretty ridiculous that youâre still suspecting me after how emotional I got on day 4 ⌠I would never fake an outburst like that as mafia and I think anyone who would fake something like that is a horrible person.
Things to do instead
We want to make it clear that we are not saying that itâs not okay to get emotional. Many of us put a lot into the game, and it can be frustrating when things donât go our way. Weâre just restricting what you can say about that in the thread. With that being said, here are some things you can consider doing, if the game is frustrating you:
- If the reason youâre upset is because another player is breaking the rules (e.g. by being toxic), you can report them to the hosts or mods. We try to watch games, but sometimes we donât see things right away (or at all), and reporting them when they happen is the best way to make sure they get taken care of.
- If youâre feeling frustrated, itâs okay to take a break from the game until youâre calmer. Thereâs nothing wrong with just stepping away for a bit.
- If you need someone to talk to, you can vent in your rolecard about your frustrations, or message a moderator (as long as they are not a player or replacement).
- If youâre noticing that mafia games regularly have a negative effect on your mental health, it may be a good idea to stop joining games for a little while. When you sign up for a game, you are implicitly accepting that other players in the game might scumread you (even if you or they are town), that people might ignore your reads even when those reads are correct, and that you might be misexecuted. Itâs okay to be frustrated by those things, but if you arenât willing to accept those possibilities and refrain from excessive ATE, you should consider taking a break from mafia until youâre in a better mental position.