nice
i heard stories from the other schools they were so much worse
I was only punched, like, 6 times during my schooling career? which feels low comparatively, but is also 6 too high
unfortunately i have extremely low endurance. fundamentally there was nothing I couldâve done to stop them. the people who couldâve stopped it did nothing. and so now iâm just stuck with a shadow over my person for all time so thatâs cool I guess
I was both a bully and the bullied so i have a lot of experience
Not my proudest life moments and luckily i matured from it
most were younger, when i had less of a filter and probably âdeservedâ it in that I would talk mad shit and be good at it
the only upperclassman bullshit i dealt with was in like gym cause they slapped everyone across grades together for it where we just had to clean shit up while they went and smoked
also didnât deal with a bunch as one of my best friends was an upoerclassman who prob kinda shielded me from other bullshit
From a moody non-smoker to a pacifist people-pleaser. Fall from grace or rise to good heavens?
but its fine. if youâre getting stalked, harassed, and physically attacked on a regular basis, jsut say no legally they canât do those things without your consent
same, my class specifically had extroverted gay people out and about
Get pleased idiot
i did not manage to evade the âterrible teachersâ-type trauma by switching schools because i did that the year after [and i did actually do it sooner than that by switching out of the guyâs class but still]
but i did manage to evade the âexcessive bullying due to being autisticâ by switching schools to the Autism School and then i managed to evade the âexcessive bullying due to being transâ by coming out literally the afternoon of the last day of school and then switching schools (but that saga still managed to traumatize me due to the, you know, losing all of your friends still bit, just i managed to evade the aftermath of âbeing still with those people all dayâ)
I was the lgbt community at my school lol
so true
if this is the problem then you can just find yourself a doormat boywife and everyone will know the social dynamic isnt normal
hello itâs me i am doormat boywife
doomed yaoi
doesnât help that during that time i also had major back surgery that required me to carry around a pillow everywhere i went for years.
i also managed to evade the âcovid lonelinessâ by literally just getting everyone onto a discord server before that wouldâve happened
but, despite my streak of being good at evading bullying and other such things, i was still traumatized by the school system because as it happens they throw a LOT of shit at you druing your teenage years, not to mention the abuse that was unrelated to school
But its a rise i am goated now and can hold a conversation