Why are you called may anyway
I was on another thead
Month I was born in
Skill issue
Nya
Genuinely I was just reading an article one day, saw something that happened in May, went āhaha thatās me :) my month :)ā. After a moment realised that that could just be my name. Felt correct. Kept saying it to myself ad nauseam for like days afterward. Under my breath. āMay May May May Mayā
And Iāve been obsessed with hearing my own name ever since
For my engineering project that Iām working with other people:
Fir-
Fire-
Litten
Then my actual name
It took four tries
Itās also vaguely after the fact that my grandmotherās name was Mary. My birth middle name was nominally after her, but she hated it. I donāt know how sheād feel about the name May in particular, but itās a more conventional name than what my middle name was, and she liked those. Feels like a wrong righted.
And itās a little bit after Brian May. I was big on Queen for a while.
Firelitten.
And Iāve had a liking for spring and its visuals since before I had this name, so even if it wasnāt my birth month, itās fitting.
The first place I ever used the name May was in public amongus lobbies. The first place my friends ever saw it was when it was my amongus name
Is it just your universal online name now?
Itās my universal name. I go by it in real life as well.
Not among my family or friends from high school. But here, I introduce myself as May.
I took down the sticker on my door that covered up my birth name with āMayā when my parents came over. I donāt really know why. Itās on my Switch and Steam profiles, they know I go by it. My mom herself went by a different name in college for a while and espoused the virtues of doing so to me unprompted once. I suppose I just donāt like answering questions.
I donāt know how they really feel about me going by a different name, to the extent they know that I do. Theyāve not been great about their friendsā nonbinary children doing so, which I suppose is why Iām nervous around it. But they donāt know Iām doing it because Iām nonbinary. I assume they just think āinternet safetyā. They picked my name out of a baby names book shortly before I was born. They named my sister a week after she was born. I bet I spent significantly more time thinking about my new name than they did my old one.
I was Willow for a while. Rhiannon for a while. Catherine for a while. Only really introduced myself as the former, and only as a username, the others were just in my own head. Didnāt ever quite feel correct enough to share.
is lemres one of your names