I also don’t have favorable views of dating apps,
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I don’t know how to exactly word it, but it’s something like you’ve just said
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Ye
yeah im not rly that type of person i just made an acct this month cuz my friends pressured me to
and i think ive opened it uh twice and never swiped right on anyone lmfao
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I just want to actually have a crush on someone before asking them out
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Fair 
I feel if I would be a woman, I’d surely be discouraged to stay on these platforms, what if somebody opens a DM with you to just flash you
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Yeah.
even though i haven’t used it for its actual purpose, bumble has unironically made me feel safer in memphis because its shown me just how many queer people there are here and that im not alone in this stupid city/state lol
those people who work at the coffee shop who pinged my gaydar? gay
the chick-fil-a worker who only wears flannels and a beanie? gay
most people just aren’t very visibly queer, likely because it can be dangerous
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Fair
Crushes are fun but not required to have a healthy, long term infatuation. The feelings of a crush inevitably fade, and are different than just attraction and emotional intimacy.
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how else would you know if you wanna date them if you dont meet them at all?
oh wait i took it too literally after reading ur next post
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hell yeah. we’re never alone anywhere, we just don’t always know how to find each other
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Yeah
Yeah
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But i still don’t like the idea of meeting random strangers
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THIS IS TRUE!!!
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im literally the gigglemeister
i literally laugh at everything tho giggling it out makes everything hella bearable