iirc
i had been thinking about this for a long time. particularly when about ~6 months ago my parents implemented what i called “1984” because i was falling behind in schoolwork which definitely caused a lot of harm.
i think? i started thinking about it a lot more seriously when my dad revealed that he was still as transphobic as ever
god damn i really need to store these things somewhere better
I should have started with this, but you’re emotionally okay talking about this?
yea ive already like. leaked most of it anyways
realistically i shouldn’t talk about it in such public spaces as this but it is definitely okay emotionally. i need somewhere to talk about it, at least
okay. what are you collecting evidence for and why?
basically. for like most of the past 2 years i have been saying Most Everything that has happened with my parents in nerdcord. for some reason. most of these things are extremely minorbut i am collecting it as a sort of. reassurance
because as it happens it is extremely hard to tell if this is on that scale if you’re still living through it. mind changes several times n all that
what
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scroll down a bit more im explaining the context
okay so it sounds like it’s mostly for your own mental. just to confirm: you don’t feel like you’re in any immediate danger?
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i am collecting screenshots of every relevant conversation in which i said the word “parent” or “parents.” will probably expand this to “mom” and “dad” later
not anything physical at least
so. no
I don’t understand even after reading it
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Oh
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okay. so the escape plan isn’t like you fleeing your house in the middle of the night, but a plan to escape your parent’s orbit post-high school?
yeye
i am getting increasingly more desperate as time goes on but like. still
gotcha. so the biggest hurdle here is going to be finances and if you’re going to college that’s likely going to continue to be a potential issue. do you have a good handle on your scholarship opportunities?
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yeah
not that great of a handle. but i am Working on it