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Google is always watching tbh
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it would depend on who was asking (i probably wouldnât say yes but i would respond neutrally/affirmatively to most people because iâm a coward)
example: (oh first one was katze everyone say hi to katze)
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hi katze 
i was just curious, bc gender do be complicated. remember that no matter whether youre the gender you were assigned at birth, a different one, maybe smlomrwhere inbetween, msybe one sometimes and another other times, quite literally everything is valid! and it def takes a while to figure it out and feel confident in that regard
u prob know this but its worth mentioining i think
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A quote I really like apropos of nothing in particular going on right now is
You donât have know what you want to be to know that being a boy isnât right.
Anyway not posting that in case itâs relevant to anyone. Just putting that out there.
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something that helped me explore my gender was 1. Trying new pronouns (like u seem to be doing) and 2. Dressing different ways and seeing how u feel, and which ones ur happy to see urself in when u look in the mirror
the journey is personal to everyone and everybody does do it! (even cis people, though usually their exploration is a lot different ckmpared to trans peopleâs 
). The only thing that matters is u think it reflects u as a person
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Ihad the exact same thing with âIâm soooo cis but Iâvehad multiple dreams about being transgender haha soweirdâ. The thing that helped me w/ this sort ofthing was, like, letting it not be a big deal, taking a pause on the whole âoh god what is my gender do I have to fully transition IRL thatâs scary I donât wanna do that I donât wanna be trans thatâs so much workâthing and looking at gender as a bunch of individual decisions rather than one big thing I have to opt in or out of.
I asked mysef, separately, like:
- âDo I want to change my pronouns online (individual decision per community)â
- âDo I want to change my pronouns IRLâ
- âDo I want to change my nameâ
- âDo I want to change how I dressâ
- âDo I want to change my hairâ
âŚetc etc et al, and then let the âbiggerâ questions come naturally as part of that. And my answers to the individual questions shifted as I tried things out and eventuallylanded in a place where Iâm happy. And Idonât have such issues anymore. And I donât hve to be scared of it
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the gender riddler
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oh right btw speaking of hair is it normal for it to feel too like. thick?? tall?? I donât know the word
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There is no one big switch labelled GENDER that you have to leave in one place or another, there are many many small little things you can do and mess around with and see if you like. And if you allow yourself to freely pick and choose options youâll likely find out your preferences a lot better than if you just force yourself to go all-or-nothing, and one day youâll wake up and go âyeah actually everythingâs where I want it to beâ, whether thatâs at Regular Trans or mildly gender nonconforming cis person or anything in between
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Also itâs crazy easy to change your name when youâre introducing yourself to new people, sometimes I just sit there and go âwait woah my name is May like IRL all these people only know me as Mayâ
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haste shard 2 spoilers
the boss is just one massive fucking ship and you have to go through its fucking ass to get in and destroy its core. I wish they like, made its weakpoint more clear the laser bullethell was unexpected and fun
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Oh the other trick with this is that you have to distinguish between âthis girl thing feels uncomfortable because I donât like it and itâs not my thingâ versus âthis girl thing feels uncomfortable because I donât feel feminine enough and itâs reminding me of thatâ which is non-trivial. There is no shortcut that I know of you just kinda have to know yourself for that one
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oh yea i get that
imma be real i was already under the impression you were a trans girl so 
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i mean defintley ya, im a bit confused exactly what u mean but feeling like ur hair is Off is fairly normal when it doesnât feel or look how you like
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The trade federation blockadeâŚ
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i read it
it seems like a basic run-down of what autism is, and slight comparisons to mafia, which is fine
but throughout the article, despite it saying that no single autisitic person is the same, it makes a significant number of generalised statements that seems portray that everyone who is autistic share some specific traits which iâm under the belief isnât true
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