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Too much peanuts
Minor spelling mistake
Therefore incorrect (you may enjoy life now)
Would anybody like to get bullied (endearingly)?
Sure why not
i meant someone normal
not someone weird like you
iâm normal
soooo weird
Thinking about why Arctic finds it more awkwars to talk to tall people and I find it more awkwars to talk to short people. Think itâs just that Iâm used to a very specific social power dynamic⌠Iâm physically smaller and weaker and nonthreatening and have a high voice and such, and I play off that a lot. I get to be meaner to people before they actually register it as such. Itâs often physically impossible for me to talk over someone because my voice is that quiet (I had trouble adjusting to VCs where Iâm the same volume as everyone else for this reason). I frame suggestions and requests as helping me out so people are more receptive to them. Itâs strange and awkward for me to suddenly have that flipped on its head.
Iâm normal you can twll cause I just wrote that exceptionally normal and not autistic paragraph
For the record I started writing that before Arctic even showed up it was fully unprompted
i find it awkward to walk next to average height or shorter people coz the place their voice is coming from is so far away from my ears that i can barely hear them. and sometimes i feel like a parent walking my child to school
well i think youâre around the same height as most women and shorter than most of guys so youâre used to being in the same position in the social dynamic most of the time whereas for me it kinda changes a lot depending on guys/girls or the occasional short guy
i donât really have any other characteristics that lean to the weaker side of the social dynamic either
it also just feels stupid to be around a bunch of 6ft+ guys as another guy
My favourite thing to do to guys is that theyâre always stubborn motherfuckers about being wrong. And itâs the most irritating thing on the planet to try to outright explain when theyâre being incorrect. So I go âhey Iâm having trouble with this problem I see you got a different answer can you help meâ and then explain it to them carefully step by step.
And then when I get to the part they did wrong I very carefully explain âwell, what I thought was the proper way to do it is (correct way), but I canât tellâ and then theyâll generally come to the proper conclusion on their own in their head. And if theyâre still wrong you go âhmm letâs check the textbook/ask the professorâ. And this works
I donât have to do this if I already know them and they already know me to be smarter than them. Usually you can be more straightforward there. But with strangers you have to break out the Strats
And thatâs very specifically leaning toward being in the exact social power role I occupy. Iâm used to being there. So itâs so weird to be like taller than people or w/e it ruins all my fucking tech
whats with this sexism damn
my culture is sexist in a ton of ways. but women consistently outperform men in academics. so thatâs one thing we donât have - men feeling unused to women performing better
may is only dating me because i am 6 ft tall