Night, I am with you, okay?
Listen very carefully to me
Donât listen to your thoughts
Breath deeply, inhale your lungs with air very slowly but inhale all in to the best of your capacity
Then hold it for a few seconds
And then begin to slowly exhale deeply
Nobody can hurt you, nobody can do you any harm
You are safe, I promise
Do this until you calm down.
I will be here cheering you on
Youâre having a panic attack
But thatâs alright, because you can get a grip on it
If you do the breath cycle
Panic attacks are caused by your fight and flight response.
The human brain thinks everything threatens itâs life when feeling excessive fear.
Thatâs not true.
Your thoughts are different than you. Thoughts are not you, nor your consciousness.
Thoughts are ideas that come and go.
Those that are negative mostly enter the center of attention because of evolution.
It doesnât know what itâs doing however.
Donât listen to them, donât engage with them.
When a thought comes, notice its presence
Then return to your breathing cycles
n-n-nya
its a lot of trauma
day nightmares
How are you feeling, night?
anxious and panicky and scared
Are you able to tell me what is the source of that?
After that I want to help you with one more exercise, one that will help you from the point forward when youâre feeling panic attacks.
Respond when you are able
scared of adults hitting me
its dark
so dark
i can feel her haunting me
Okay now I want you to do the same breathing cycles.
But now, I want you to do something on top of that, alright? Itâs foolproof, so donât get worried youâd get anything wrong.
List 5 things you can see around you. From each corner of the room and one from the middle of the room.
List 4 things you can hear. Pick 2 loud things and 2 quiet things, if thereâs not enough sound around, try to softly knock on your school desk, hear your nose breath, maybe crankle a wrapper
List 3 things you can feel. Try to pick three things from different body parts, your hand against the bench, the roof of your mouth with your tongue, a small leaf in your shoe. You should always have at least 3 things within touching distance. You can also interact with your clothes.
List 2 things you can smell. If you donât think you can smell anything, you can also try to feel the temperature of the air in your nose.
List 1 thing you can taste. Usually the remnants of Food.
what if i
cant see anything
Look at your phone screen. List me 5 words that you can read.
i
c-cant read anything on it
cries
the nightmares are getting worse
Itâs alright. Deep breaths
And do the list thing, you can do it!