just found the craziest playlist
you can be wrong its ok
I think Iām fine until I have to talk to people I know IRL via text. Or anyone one-on-one via text, really. I am 10x less shy when thereās more than 1 other person around
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Itās like Salopton Iām always taking 1v2s
im sorry hazard I cant beef with you for liking tally hall when I like roar i am cringe but I am free
i think all the friends iāve made in college have been mutual friends
this is probably not good
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I HAVE LOST MY LIST OF CHRISTMAS CARD GIVERS
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Just as May said above
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Interesting, I feel much calmer and more confident in one on one, even if I mess up and say something embarassing I feel safe that itās between us and it might be endearing even, in group conversations I feel a bit more wary. There are definitely people of either type
Yeah. For me itās that when Iām in a one-on-one conversation, I feel obligated to respond to everything someone says, and so if I canāt think of a response, it feels awkward. I feel like I have to be constantly carrying the conversation. I canāt pause to think as much.
Everything I say is usually very thought-through*, so I donāt worry about accidentally embarrassing myself so much as overthinking and not saying anything at all. Or being unable to think of a suitable response to something somebody says and just being left in silence.
*Despite appearances, this applies online as well
Very understandable and valid. For me, I just donāt feel the need to carry any conversations or to respond to everything, itās okay if Iām not fully vibing with the person or the mutual interests arenāt fully there. IRL one on one is where I feel like you, I canāt get away with it there and need to feign more reactions and that might be bothersome
And I can look to other people for appropriate reactions and copy them. I am a serial response copier. If I canāt read, like, how serious someone is about something, thereās a third party there to analyse and help me out.