REAL
i dont really get it
does it mean “the worst thing we do to boys (young men) is turn them into boys (children)”?
if so, i dont think children are hateful
i think its saying that the worst thing they do to boys is make them aspire to become “real men”?
this sentence sounds very different to me unless we equate boys = men which is rare to see
idk
i think it prooobably is saying something about like
the societal standards for “boys” and “MEN”
I like “The worst three words any boy can hear is ‘Be a man’”
:true:
I suspect the confusion here is at least in part derived by the trans folk having negative connotations with the subject that people like tutuu and I just
do not have
known cis icon, tutuu
yeah
toxic masculinity is def not just a trans issue
at least in part
itd be funny to say that it took me a bit to realize it wasnt talking about being trans
but that isn’t true
obviously there are aspects of both traditional and modern masculinity that can be bad or harmful (both to others and the men themselves) but that doesn’t mean the entire concept is net negative for society
but yeah this is also true
i mean
if you’re smart enough to cut out the bad aspects i guess?
oh
obligatory joker
(the way it plays out is definitely net negative. at least with alpha male shit and such)