As long as I live in their house it’s Desirable but unless things change really fast it’s not happening
Also I suppose so
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I don’t think you have to keep your parents in your life if they suck. If someone only makes your life worse, excise them from it when you can even if it’s family.
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Maybe it’s different from me because I’ve never had a relationship with my mother, I didn’t care for her and every time she’s reached out to me I’ve ignored her, my dad is cool even though he has problems though, I don’t really care so much about parental relationships as much as how they make you feel, which I feel like is the most important part of the relationship?
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When I move out I might like. try limiting contact and if it turns out bad. Idk
But that’s not for a while so I haven’t thought about it much
Also yea this is my mentality
sometimes people abuse you when they dont mean to
when they do so even if they have the best of intentions you’re gonna have to cut it off
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My mom went back to her mom to try to have a relationship and it breaks my heart. That woman is the only living grandparent and I can’t say this emphatically enough: may she rot in hell for what she did to my mom.
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Either way I will 100% limit the scope of their influence once I’m out; there will be no tracking, and they will not have access to my university accounts, and such
Yeah it’s not up to you to fix your parents
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There are so many other people in life who will care about you that they don’t really matter if you don’t want it to matter
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And I will definitely only listen to them if it’s as equals lol
That sounds weird
You get what I mean tho right
And yeah
I should go call my dad, I don’t ever talk to him even though he makes a point about calling me on every special occasion
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You want to revisit the relationship when they don’t essentially have control over your entire life?
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This is also true tho
Maybe?
I. Probably not honestly
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