This is unironically the most toxic shit to say, game aside
This is exactly the same as when someone says
“They pulled the trigger themselves” yeah you just gave them the gun, the ammunition and prepared the gun for them ahead of time knowing they’re a new player and they seem uninterested in the game
This doesn’t exempt you of responsibility, these attitudes of being a chaotic fucko and then washing your hands off responsibility every, single, time is genuinely irritating
Whatever the case, this is just how you play, I already know it and I won’t succumb to the emotional vote everyone wanted to